About Me:

For 19 years, I worked at the United Nations and almost a decade of that in war zones. I relocated over 20 times, lived in more than 20 countries, and built an entire identity around being the person who could handle anything.

From the outside, it looked like resilience. From the inside, I had gotten so good at adapting to external circumstances that I had no idea who I was without them. My identity was built on what I could endure, not on what I actually wanted.

So I left. I walked away from the career, the title, the security — nearly two decades of it. I sold everything I owned. And I started over with the understanding that staying was costing me more than leaving ever could.

I had spent years helping other people navigate crisis, and I didn't know how to navigate my own. It wasn’t that I lacked courage, I was never taught me how to sit with uncertainty without trying to solve it, outwork it, or escape it. I had to learn that through the loneliness of starting over, the grief of letting go of an identity I'd spent my adult life building, and the slow work of figuring out who I truly am.

That's what I coach now. Because I lived it.

I work with people in the middle of the hardest transitions of their lives. People who are successful by every external measure and still feel like something is off. People who know they want something different but can't see the path. People who are already mid-change and feel like they're losing themselves in the process.

I write about all of this on SubStack. I speak about it on stages. And I work with people one-on-one because that's where the real change happens.

I'm still on the road. I still don't have most of the things people think they need to feel secure. And my life has never made more sense.